He snorts, not delicately, and as if she is speaking nonsense ("Bullshit.") then before she can get offended he explains "You just said you knew it would scare you to go. That you knew it wouold make you afraid, or hostile... and you went anyway? to show our daughter what's right ? Tove Torindau, if you don't see why that's courage, you need to review some of your own songs."