"Well, I didn't thin kshe was a BAD influence.. .but I think folks are going to tell Adam 'maybe you can still be friends' and I know when I was his age ,I thought that was really an ignorant thing to say. Not because they must be enemies, or she's a villain... but rejection stings, and it hurts to be near the other person sometimes... folks expect it all to 'reset' but in truth? It's like a dental drill for the heart every time you sit next to him or her... and know you put yourself out, and it wasn't up to snuff, and what COULD be, now won't be. I' mnmot saying they never WILL be friends again, but it can't be rushed, and we can insist on it. It's cruel to do so"