"Both of you want respect, need to be respected, by those around you, and mostly by yourselves. And when something causes you to lose that self respect," She takes a sip of her own milk, "It makes you panic inside, just a bit, lash out, to try to find a substitute. I could show you papers on the studies, but I do suspect they'd just bore you. Now Adam, you insulted me... were you really thinking of ME specifically when you did the insult? It's okay if you did, but I'm curious."