She stands up and steps over to Adam, reaching up to lightly press a hand on his cheek. "Listen, hun - I don't want to sound broken-recordy. But... there are holds out there where instead of asking you to pick an outfit, you might be dressed up and on display as a pampered pet. Or that what you did would be considered your duty and due, and you should count yourself lucky that you even GET to scrabble for crumbs of the Dreaming. Some fae are just shitty people - to commoners, to kinain,,, let alone to mortals... I just don't want to see you ending up hurt because you learned that the world is a nicer place than it is."