"She is rather on the nose as a metaphor, but she serves admirably," The noblewoman says "However, part of the sidhe dream involves ruling. It's.. IN us, like Guardianship is in trolls and there is some overlap. In my case, my idea of rulership includes that you are provided for, sheltered, and given a chance for happiness doing what you love among other things. If my presence is so alarming or nerve wracking that it interferes with my ability to lead, I have a problem. Hence my wish to make you more comfortable around me. At least when it's not formal court" A smile