"Such is true for most of us. " A nod as he looks over the dogs "You are at that age where you likely wish to prove yourself your own man, yet still want to be a part of a group. For many teenagers and wilders alike, this leads to poor choices. Poor choices can lead to doom, or adventure to escape the doom. My House is Slavic, we are used to tragedies, so we shrug such folly and move on, or take that tragedy and make it a part of us, a strength. You are, I am told, a Fiona. Our houses are different in many ways, we Varich watch for Patterns, Fiona leap forward often heedless a pattern is there, but I can tell you that Fiona who learn from their mistakes gain a sort of wisdom as they go on - assuming they survive the mistakes. You'll learn how to harnass pride. It's like any beast. A useful companion on the hunt or to get somewhere, but it should never be the master. I learned this myself, years ago."