"They are" He smiles, then he says quietly and growing serious, "Look Piper, Adam is my friend, but you're my cousin.. and ... I don't want to take sides but you're BOTH Allowed to be happy. Just.. don't expect him to go from boyfriend to just friend smoothly. It would be nice if guys were like that, but... well, it's a hell of a downshift to his world. And don't beat yourself up either. Kay?"