"If it helps at all, I get him in trouble at home. " A pause, and he rephrases. "That is, I tell Ann Marie about all the terrible shit he does, so that she can complain about it to her friends and how she works so hard but. it's like he's TRYING to be a lost cause. I can tell she knows, though, because he never REALLY gets punished. Grounded, but he has to help out with the groceries, or he rakes the lawn and then gets extra pie..."