Tove nods, "Well, those are a teenage girl's fears, fears born of hard and cruel lessons. You? You are not a Teenge girl. You are a grown man and a grump, albeit a young grump."She rises, "If you're feeling worried with waiting, stow it away and reflect instead on how much harder this is on her. She's been asked to take for her a terrible risk, and show a lot of trust. Sometimes the best thing you can offfer another, no matter how much it pecks at your own insecurities, is patience. But you are the one hoping to be her parent, eh?"