"which if up to you will be what a month?" wry, "Just saying, you wrap her up too tight and she'll be miserable ...that kid's a doer not a thiker and I don't mean that badly." A pause, "As for Dagmar, Frank. What about MY failings on the legal side? My paperwork is obsolete. I'm an orwellian unperson. how do I adopt when the system won't know who i am?"