"I am sorry... you were robbed of your childhood even as a mortal, by the system, but indifference of folks aware of that system. Sam never got to be just a little girl, though god knows, I think Jaymes tried to give you all the love you missed as a father, and still does. Your mom too. But it doesn't change the fact the little girl IS gone. " He ponders "You have a right to your feelings, to your regrets. Just don't let regret over what you lost keep you from the discoveries of what's to be. You are loved NOW. You are amazing, and we have faith in you. Sam the young woman aka Dagmar the slightly older Wilder, is and is going to be amazing whatever she does... but yes , folks hope she's also happy and tackles as much of the world as her potential allows."