"So much, mom and dad make me crazy, but they're there for me. Not just to talk to, but by what they show me day to day. Love is possible for the stern and stoic, it is possible for those who choose to take on great burdens , far more than I will ever take on. But ... it's there you know? Your parents probably teach you more than you realize if you think about it... even in romance. I mean... your dad.. your mom out ranks him. She co rules, he doesn't. But now and then... have you noticed, she looks at the end of her rope and.. he's just there. How your dad treats your mom? It's... a better lesson to a young woman than a dozen speeches. My dad is the same. He walks in mom's shadow, but when she staggers, his hand is the one that takes hers. I'm not blind to that. In fact, " Speculative, "The older I get, the more impressed I am by it."