Siv tilts her head and looks at her mom, really looks at her, "You're prettier than you think, I think. But then... Dad sees you as Helen of Troll. So maybe that balances out your biases." She looks down at her garb "Maybe I'm trying so hard to act like a grown woman I'm being a bit immature about it... you know, swimwear level stuff in winter no less. I guess, on the ship, when it was warm, you and dad never made me feel ashamed of my body, and I'm not saying you doing it now. Heck, North sea cold kept me modest enough" A chuckle "Learned that one. but...sometimes I think I'm being immature and silly, and other times I think someone told you how unpretty you were until you believed it. ANd I'd like to go back in time and pop them in the nose, ye know?" a look at her mom "Tell ye what. Your my mother, and I trust you. If you think this is a bad idea, I'll honor your wisdom and let the glamour of transparency fade. I admit, you have a point it might be having the wrong idea in some headds about how just because I'm on the table I'm a free banquet" A frown "I mean, a sword will teach them otherwise but there is a point of the best way to avoid is not lure. I just..." A smile "I don't know what I'm doing some days, mom, I just want to do it. And I'm not alwayhs good at the big picture. But..."Ahem "And it's none of my biz. If you were to catch dad in your bedroom or in the captains quarters wearing a dress that was revealing? He's not think you not pretty. And you'd have not one inch of you to be ashamed of."