#ooc

Poor Nadeen

tragically denied her needs

shoes

It's why she dictums them when the Liams aren't looking

"You WILL buy me these "

heh

good Velvet

Velvet likes Bronte as well.

But then I think most folks like Bronte. Even our little Gwydion 🙂

true!

Bronte is a charmer

she can be hard, my brain doesn't always want to do quotes and then you are googling for a good choice

Oh I definitely scramble along the internet

I'm off for at least till 5 possibly 530

ok

Damn microsoft's pushy updates.

"hey you need an update, and by update we mean we want a lot more personal information and access to your lap top than we had five days ago but suddenly we NEED"

Yeah, that's a PitA.

Had to do a cold start in order to bypass it

Maybe overnight?

Well, more to it than that. It wants me to fill out email addies and pin numbers blah blah

and yes, I checked for a Virus. It's Microsoft

UGH.

Spot is fed, Rex came and mowed

I'm all settled; it's FFY night so.....

ffy?

Fend for yourself?

Yep!

mmm

I am thinking of ordering pizza

I had pizza for lunch; good choice.

I'm stressing out on my brother's wedding.

Weddings are STRESSFUL.

I don't have a suit that fits and am not sure I can afford one. I've lived blissfuly casual for a long time. While the wedding is small, I'll be visiting some relatives who I suspect will not be wearing a mask. Not sure I will be allowed to wear a mask. So Covid fears while silly to some are alarming me. Then there's if I'm going to end up hostage for a weekend and where I will stay. My sister will put me up, but she's apparently hooking up with her abusive Ex and I don't know if I can trust myself not ot ask her what the hell??? let alone tell him he's a dickwad in front of his kids.

D, it's ok to say No.

Do you have a nice shirt & tie?

I know it's hard and it's family but....

My parents can put me up, but it will be a lot less room and my mom, well, she can make me want to slit my wrists

I exagerate I suppose and i shouldn't... but good lord.

it IS ok to say no

Promised my brother I'd be there

And I think I have a nice shirt and tie but it's been years so I worry about my gut.

Rental tux? (I say having never done such a thing)

Possible. But pricey. Mmmph I'll get through it. I have some help here (But they are all swamped swith other things, including one of their friends having a wedding on the same weekend)

But I can't shake fussing over it

I'm tempted to get a hotel room and risk offending fam

But even if I did that, they'd find out where and storm in to visit

Do you have khakis?

khakis are wedding appropriate w/a sport coat