#ooc

AND I wish I didn't

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My sister's Ex is visiting, staying over.. abusive asshole. He's seeing two other women.. which is fine. He's also apparently telling my sister how much hotter they are and how she's used goods

He has done this shit for years. He tears her down, toxic level shit.

Now, when she SHOULD be free of his ass... he uses his visits to the kids to keep it up

And I can't do shit about it.

Family does NOT listen to me.

Just two weeks ago, it was "You know, he wasn't always bad"

and I was like "he's poisonous"

I hear you.

And now my parents are "We thought he was getting better"

"But guess not"

and I'm ready to put my head through a wall.

Sorry, ladies. I shouln't vent at you, but the neighborhood folks look at me funny if I yell "MY FAMILY WANTS MY OPINION THEN IGNORES ME"

No no its ok

asshole

it's not like we don't all vent here too

they want to rugsweep and make pretend happy family

oh hai there

Mr. D., she needs to talk to her lawyer.

The article is titled: "Perspectives of Rural Women: Custody and Visitation With Abusive Ex-Partners"

Ah, my family doesn't listen to my advice or suggestions. They only tell me how everything has gone to hell, act surprised it happened, and make me join in the misery where they seem to want my opinion, so they can ignore it again.

I assume you've pointed out to them that you told them so?

Not often. But when I did it only stuck for a half month

blergh

and I shall watch my problematic fave tonight, woo

I think it's time to say it loudly and often, Mr. D.

But then again...sorry, not my place.

Way I see it, I am venting to you guys like my parents vent to me so I have to accept someonee is going to have good advice to ME

otherwise I'm being a hypocrite 😉

So I appreciate it, and the love it is intended. But they tune things out. so advice I get, I share, they tune out too

AND now we need to reboot system. Unrelated but annoying. AFK for I don't know how many minutes

reboot

it crowd

it crowd

Such a good show. Completely problematical these days.

yeah

but I still enjoy it

stephen the goth especiakky

halp

cat

so many things don't age well

luckily for us, WE are all aging like fine wines

I THINK I'm back? Depends if others are connected

woo

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