Yes. And I suppose that's arrogant of me. But you know how I talk about how they have problems I can't talk about? And how I mention almost every time I talk to my mom it's a litany of lamentations, tribulations, and dooms? Well, I have determined they need their support network even if it has some morons in it. I cannot do much, but I can keep that as best I can. They can destroy it if they want, but I won't. As arrogant as it sounds to say "it's for their own good", my parents have MADE their problems my problems, and so by doing so, I feel no guilt in putting out fires for them, and thus potentiallhy for mhyself. I don't like the stress I've already got. I will not be adding to it...n ot in that way.