#ooc

NICE

remembrance 🙂

I think that's enough for her to be not-a-sack

Well, Bluebell is almost one automatic succcess,she's their training horse for good reason

But yes, I think that's enough for great form out of the gate

/roll 4

sigh Day one, and drama

well, ia m the drama cause today because my tummy is acting up

My sister's psychologically abusive soon to be Ex wants to spend the night at this house after all. Affter he informed her days ago he hated her and he wanted the divorce now and has called her every name under the book. Of cours,e she didn't flat out TELL him he wasnt' coming in. Told me he wasn't, so I'm not sure she understands that you have to flat out SAYsomethings

abuse can make it very very hard to say no

be the bad guy and tell him he ain't welcome

She thought that one of them would have the kids on Christmas, andd the other on Christmas Eve

Very hard.

recruit your parents to say no?

(Get it in writing...._

Alas my parents have some things that prevent themm from doing so.

gotcha

I could. Mind you if he flies off the handle I'm going to get my ass handed to me.

have the cops haul his asshole ass off to cool down

We love you, D.

Thanks.

"Notice: Instructions for dismounting from (a horse). FIrst, compose your mind. Much easier to get down than up."

Okay.Sorry. My sis and I had another talk. Her Jerkasshusbandd wants to stay the night. wanted to know when she wanted the kids Christmas or Christmas eve. She said which ever would be best for him, he didn't choose.She finally said she wanted them for Eve...and then he took THAT. Still wants to stay, etc.

uhg

jerk

I offered to talk to her Huband on the phone, nope.

Are they separated?

Oh I see

Scroll is the key

Have I mentioned that no one in my family, including my mom, who expects me to help, listens to me? Yet I explain that to my mom, and she nods and thensays you soudl talk to' and s ee if you can... head desk

it' tough when you are empathetic and don't want to see her hurt, and also hate seeing her make choices that keep her in a bad place but can't do anything

BBIAB

I understand I can't FIX other people's problems, That has been made abundantly clear. I wish I could. But my mom seems to assume I have al ot more power than I do.

uhg

She's a great mom mind you. But nargh.

And my sister is so quick to fold, the only thing that gave her the guts to file divorce was him threatening to doit to her and take the kids

He should not have tried THAT.

"I was joking" is what he apparently said when she filed first.

That's a joke? Seriously?

Sounds like an abusive ass for sure

Oh without a doubt. He's gone through her phone, set up remote access to her lap top, and oen time tried to keep her from leaving the House when they were in Germany. This sort of shit has been going on for years

yeah, she's not going to be able to fight him easily

years of beaing her down like that?

I know. And the only thing I can do is tell her I'm here. or offer an ear. But honestly ? when I' m not at the house she only communicates by face book and her public profile is sunshine and daisies, her private message are....brief. I cannot force myself into her troubles.

also true

but you can refuse to have asswipe in the house with you