#ooc

Agreed.

Maybe he should ask EBG for advice

well, Z likes Bill

Maybe I'll open a PBEM for Bill and Earl sometime.

Shady's schedule means she doesn't always get on when the rest of us are going

So she might like that

Now Sally Mae is his cousin and knows finances, so in some ways she can help

agreed

Sigh B trying to get in contact with her daughter. wants my help messaging since her daughter isn't responding to calls. her daughter is at work. Naturally, B wouldn't tel me what it is about if I asked so why bother there? Daughter texts me to tell me she's called now...but her mom isnt' answering.

B went tothe bathroom, so musical communciations I would guess. I suspect B wants to GO somewhere as soon as her daughter gets back and has plans to bullybrowbeat her to do it

uhg

B, your daughter is AT WORK

respect that

sit your happy ass down and wait

She's the soul of selfishness

yup

oh yes

keep the witch from finding out

Sluagh ARE dreams of fear and punishment

He's pretty sure zara could have the folks doing this so afraid that they piss themselves whenever they see his artwork

yup!

There, long bit of banter

Sighs B, stop trashing your daughter in conversations with me and maybe, just maybe, I won't call you on your passive aggressive bullshit.

Hi, Shady

Only surfacing for a 'mo. *hugs* BBL.

later

And B just tried to walk down stairs and out the door, alone.

Well, about 10 minutes ago. I ended up walking with her barefoot. Because if it's dementia, well, probably not safe. And she mentioned driving again. Joy

Ok... going to try being conscious for a while.

Not getting out of bed yet, though.

That's awful to hear, D.

Oh mostly she's being a bitch

possibly a bitch who is losing her mind, but still a bitch

Worse thing is, I feel a lot less sympathy than I should

That phenomenon is one reason care taking is so hard.

There was a time where I used to dream for fun that if I won a lottery, I'd use the money to buy a dream house. Help my family. Pay some bills. That sort of thing. Now, it's Get her out of here THEN the other stuff

Yep.

Must admit, I have a strong respect for my friend, her son in law. He knows how to shut her down better than I

and I know he's about had it with B making snide comments about his wife.

It hurts!

TRYING to follow his example

It is not easy.

You're doing very well in a very difficult situation. *Hugs* You have high standards for yourself.

This is testing them.

Not really. I'm rather slothful and I give upeasy. But when I don't have a choice, well, what cannot be cured must be endured

in my case endured with a lot of self pity and venting to friends 😉

🎵 That's what friends are for.... 🎵

The good times, the bad times...sways

Ok, I am at least no longer horizontal.