Oh, B got on a phone with a friend of hers and invited her up to the camping trip sometime saturday. Oookay, I think, a bit rude as this isn't just your camping trip. her friend claims she doesn't really know the way. NO Problem. B volunteers her daughter and son in law to escort her friend...so their first saturday will be getting up at the crack of 'my god' and escorting B's friend. B did not ask if this was okay with them, or if they'd mind.