It may just be my perceptions, but it seems as though ER might be focusing really hard on the Ravaging part of Norm's story? From my understanding of glamour gathering systems, Ravaging is actually very common, pretty much all unseelie do it, and though it's 'frowned upon' by Seelie there's actually no rules against it or anything in the Escheat about it - Rhapsody being the strictly forbidden one.
Just trying to wrap my brain around what's going on here, esp. now as I have an unseelie character of my own in play.