#ooc

PLAY THE GAME

<---guilty

And when her daughter is available, she expects her daughter to be with her.

For car rides if her daughter is going somewhere, to watch TV to ..oh anything it seems. So, I admit, part of my annoyance maybe that I have lost a friend essentially

Yeah

Sounds like a vortex

Yeah. And it's making her daughter a bit nuts

B is mad because her daughter bosses her around. WHich, her daughter does. As in, she makes B do what the doctors told her to do.

Yup.

and since B doesn't respond to anything but bossiness sometimes, she should not be surprised

Oy

"don't forget you have to be ready by three" gets a nod and ignored. "You don't want to miss that thing at three, do you? It's very important" gets a nod and ignored. "Mom, get dressed now." HEY, that works.

meanwhile my poor housemate is feeling like she's being forced to play the villain here... y'know, if villains were trying to save lives

You think I'm frazzled by B, you'd have to see my friend. She's a rock mentally speaking compreed to me (Most folks are) but she's feeling frayed on and off

Yeah. It is a HUGE change in house dynamics.

BUT enough of my venting. How you guys?

Pretty good. Nap. Nerd event tomorrow.

What are the nerds planning?

Outdoor event - it's actually a weekend of camping, but, well, that ain't happening this time for a bunch of overlapping reasons.

There are classes, and shopping, and people to visit.

Yup!

I'll admit, I spend at least half of most events chattering with folks.

Hey, no shame in that if you can

Yup!

Tomorrow is dancing, but it is late. With driving back, I may choose to skip it

Electric boogaloo

Yeah.

off to start dinner prep, will be around!

seeya!

later you

I need to see if B will accept help with her meal

godspeed, Mr D

Oh dear god, she's calling her daughter at a training thing

she's running wild!

Hey.

Sounds like she needs everybody to be the "bad guy"...nothing short of "Do this now " or "No, you may not do that" will work, and then she gets to blame others for being mean. Of course, I don't know the woman. Just guessing.

I'd say you're guessing well.

Oh..I've offered to help heat up her left overs. SHe doesn't want them heated up with the microwave..she wants them heated up with the oven

But that's okay, she doesn't eat this early anyway, and her son in law is on his way

....

I'm like..oookkaaaay

Her son-in-law?

Housemates (Upstairs people) are a marred couple (And now one old lady)

Downstairs people are moi and another swinging single.

Ah, got it. So, not dementia...there actually is a son-in-law.

BUt exactly what he's supposed to do that I can't do I don't know. I'm guessing I've offended her at this rate, but I tend to see the negatives