"Sir August, to you a bit of advice, not counting as your reward. Give this one, " a gesture to Coradel," a fight now and then, adoration often, and quiet comfort without drawing too much attention to any other that she is need of same, and you may find yourself doing well by her. But be wary of assuming you know the steps. For if you think you have found a waltz with her finally as is easy, she will most assuredly insist on a tango. In my many years I have learned one thing of women of any House, indeed, of any kith- They do not want a man to fight their battles for them, to slay their dragons; they can do that themselves- but they most assuredly expect you to be willing to do it, or else why are they putting the work into you?"