Yeah, Brekke P. My housemates are great, but they are out and about more than I am. What this inevitably means if they say 'so and so is coming over and I can't help that' and I believe the last part, but then they tell me "You don't have to play host" and I'm like... "You're not here. Who the hell is going to be doing it?" Because the timing inevitably goes off. And I have southern ghosts in my family who would haunt my ass if I just said "don't bother me." to their guests, whether I invited them or not.