Example being, people who say that by -- just an example -- Jer needing Thea or Jeff specifically for a cantrip or emotional support, and has 'bad' effects if he doesn't get it, it's up to me, not them, to fix him. But you can look around and see characters....not saying these are the people who have said it, but just look at Zara and her 'needs' for emotional support from her parents or Hirim. Or if Emerson lost CC and went Unseelie again as a result, or Jeff needed rescue and no one came. Every character depends on another for something.