Calanthe explains to her Lord, in her own terse way. Of the cantrips she worked on his behalf, to numb the pain and allow him to function.
He frowns at this - it is hard to contemplate such grief that might lay him low, when he does not even remember the woman of which she speaks.
"Nadeen tells me that you hid from me the truth. That it was by my own hand that the woman was brought to an end."
At this, Calanthe bristles. "The woman was your wife, and my sister. And you are my lord, and brother. Silverwolf needed Lord Aiden, the Ailil Baron. Not a lovelorn widower intent on following into the shadow."
"I would judge this myself, but that I cannot remember anything. This is no 'numbing'!"
Calanthe shrugs expressively. "For that I take no blame. Nadeen took it upon herself to intrude into my private sanctum and meddle in magics she has no understanding of. She broke my working, damaged the delicate threads of the cantrips, and this nervosa that threatens? It is her doing. I kept your memories safe and preserved. By her hand, were they stolen."