"Earl, I can't sneak off to Firnost and do.... whatever. People know where I am. I'm on patrol, I spar and train, I meet with the barons here and sometimes the Nunnehi, we have festivals and holidays to plan and host..... I'm busy, and if I'm -lucky- I get Fourth of July and Thanksgiving to see my family. Period. Let them come with whatever they think; I have answers."