"In point of fact, I doubt I have scratched the surface of your thoughts, but some are not mine to know." He admits "Your kith, in their way, are as private as the sluagh. And it would be ill mannered of me to demand acceses to how you feel beyond what you share. Your hopes and wishes I try to take into account because you have more than earned it. And I spent too much time among the Ailil I fear. It is hard not to see angles in how to work things. May I have your word of secrecy for at least a moon?"