"Ah, grasshopper to your ant or whatever..." A nod "Hey, the trial of women is work life balance. This is normally where I'd give some advice or tell you what the fuck I do, but you've probably already heard all that sort of thing so I'll close my satyr yap on that and instead just say I'm pretty sure you'll find your own way. You're a bright driven young woman. You got friends. You'll be good. Your sister has her life, you have yours, yadda yadda" SHe says with a shrug "I'll never be Jayna, but I am not above stealing an idea from her if I like it. Jayna tells me there are things she envies about me." A snort and grin "Ain't that a kick?"