"Darlin, you're miserable there... the college more than the house, of course. Let's face it, one day we shall have our rickety victorian with a garret, bats fluttering in and out of roof tiles and a spider in every corner of every room... but this place is where you are happy...and yes, visits to Scarsdale too. I started to take steps on your behalf. And fortunately, I realized I must make sure you agree."