"I have no shame in it, though some try to make it so" Sir Eluf says "I am not sure how familiar you are with House Aesin, but we tend to learn roles within the house... most often, men become Warriors, Hunters, Berserkers, and Skalds. Most often, women take up the paths of Volva, Mothers, or sometimes Skalds ..and this is expected. But while there is pressure to stick to these choices, now and then, a woman may long to be a warrior for example, and if she can take the teasing, and is good at it, she is accepted or at least tolerated. I am in an opposing situation. I am a Mother"