"August, look, the Gift often has a carnal edge, but that's not all it is. Like I said, it releases you to enjoy yourself. In fact, it is possible you were released to please your lady more than usual is all. What I mean is, she enjoys intimacy. YOU enjoy making her happy . So, even if Sex were just an end to that means for you.... you really give it your all when the gift of pan has you enthused. Is _that _ helpful if embarrassing? You can act uninhibited for selfless reasons too you see?"