"Well, just the other day I was talking about the school being a bit over whelming, and he told me that he would be happy to fetch supplies from the otherside so I wouldn't have to and could focus on the kids. I nodded, and he came back with supplies, and some lemonade for me. I didn't even ask. Now, another woman might find that kind of extra kindness alluring, and take it all personal, but I've got Iowan sense. He's just being neighborly"