"I know, and she's just the sort to work herself hard, but look at it from the other side, you don't tell your chief about something you see as a problem, and then the problem bursts out and surprises her? have you really done a good thing? And if you try to fix it all by yourself and it goes sideways , she maybe upset you didn't trust her enough to tell her. Look, my uncle once told me something and I think it's true, 'the care and feeding of leaders is a delicate matter, you can give portions they can handle, but don't starve them- they get cranky'"