"Son, I don't have to be fae to realize when a guy is patting himself on the back and thinking it's applause. I work in advertising, and I've sold kitty littter comercials that rang truer. I understand exactly how lonely you're going to end up one day with that attitude if you don't learn to see from others eyes. And not fine. your mom apologized, she made amends. You chewed her out anyway ... now, if you want thing to be 'good ' .. you've got an apology to make yourself. Oh, and if you have a complaint about us 'now' versus 'then' I remind you, you had a part in making us changelings. We have deep dived into this world, and I got news for you.. if I Had ever treated your grandmother the way you treated your mom just now? I'd be up against a wall with your grandfather explaining to me how he's picked his side... and don't ever do that again. " A breath "But that wouldn't teach you maturity. Consequence, maybe, but not maturity. I want you to think about this from your mom's side.. she was furious, then she was mortified at what she did, t hen she swallowed her pride.. and tried to fix it. THEN you storm in and curse her out like you don't give two shits about her or her feelings. Not two shits. Maybe I'm the one who should apologize, because somewhere I got let the message get in your head that it was better to get what you want even if you stepped all over people's feelings to do it, than to show gratitude to those who cared for you." He strides to the door, looks back "THINK about what you're doing to others while you look out for how things make YOU look. That's manhood... not this 'big dick boy don't need nobody else can do what i want' bullshit you're injecting into your brain-stem ." And he closes the door not quite slamming it.