"Look, I don't normally intrude on folks lives.. but I need something to do or I'll go crazy. You go on, I'm going to make your family , well, the ones here, a big pot of Vegetarian Gumbo. No need to tell them it's Vegitarian if you don't want to. I'll have it dropped off tonight, and you give me your honest opinion on it. Don't worry, I live in the same county as Kerri Davidson, I've learned to settle for the bronze in culinary so you won't hurt my feelings"