"I'm not sucking up. Or at least, I don't mean to. " Gwen answers "And I don't do this because it will get me something. I just figure maybe you're lonely sometimes, and even if you're not, you're one of us now. We look after each other. Most of us anyway. Look, I don't know you, I don't know what you've had to put up with before now, or what you expected. All I know is that folks treated me kindly, and now? It's on me to pay it forward. This isn't pity, or charity , it's...just how I think it should be. "