"Oh Bruce is going to have a harder time than I am once it sinks in. Oh his focus is on Symon gettinng a good education so he can have a nice future, but I think, bless him, like me, he imagined bio grand kids one day. Well, Adopted will be just as nice. AND who knows, maybe Dirk is a polygymist so it will balance out. I'll deal with Bruce as needed and give Symon his space. I'd love to ask him flat out if he believes he's Asexual, but, aside from the horror he'd feel if I did- Symon might also thinnk you told me more than you did, and that's unfairr to you both. Mm I suppose I'll leave him be until summer at the least, romantically speaking"