He raises a brow, "You got that partially from me. You think I let your mother gather moss? Oh hell no. I had to move quick, and trolls aren't normally that way. Look, if he and the life he offers is what you want, then, well, you have my blessing. He's a good man, and he could use a woman in his life who loves him and draws strength from him even as she lends her own. On the other hand, you need to consider the commitment in such a life and how it fixes your star to certain points. And how it will challenge you, and yes, change you. Because as I said, he's an honorable man, and eventually, once Dagmar and he are oathed as daughter and father perhaps, he's going to propose to you. ANd don't act surprise. You have to know that"